65+ Incredible Resources for Better Sex in Christian Marriage



Do you want to have better sex, or do you have questions on how to grow in intimacy with your spouse?

Sure! We all do from time to time! That’s totally normal. 

Since sex is one of the top five issues that couples argue about, it makes sense that we all occasionally need some advice in this areaeverything from sexual technique to ways to grow in intimacy overall (so that our sex life improves).

But where do we go to find real answers? Especially answers that aren’t raunchy or immoral?

Most of us aren’t comfortable talking with family members about this. And we can’t really bring it up with our friends while we’re on a playdate at the park: “So, Jenny, my husband and I were wondering if you and Steve…” (UH, no!!).

We need a central place where we can go to (discreetly!) discover healthy answers about sex.

And that, my friends, is why I wrote this post.

Do you want to have better sex, or do you have questions on how to grow in intimacy with your spouse?Sure! We all do from time to time! That's totally normal. But where do we go to find real answers? Especially answers that aren't raunchy or immoral? Go to this post to discover healthy answers about sex for Christian marriages. Everything from sexual techniques to growing in emotional intimacy—it’s all here! You’ll want to come back here again and again as an awesome resource!

I’ve gathered 63 incredible resources that can answer those questions about sex and intimacy for Christian couples. 

These are everything from great books to products (nothing raunchy, I promise!) to helpful Your Vibrant Family blog posts and marriage videos.

Some of them are about specifically about sexual technique or physical intimacy; while others are less direct and offer practical ideas and solutions for improving intimacy in marriage (which often starts outside the bedroom and by working on key relationship issues).

There are also resources on flirting and keeping love fun; and those that address what to do if pornography or erotica enters your marriage.

They’re grouped together by topic (there are 10 topics total) so that you can find the answers you need fast. You can click on each link to go to that section.

#1 How to Improve Your Spiritual Connection (The Secret to the Best Sex!)

#2 How to Improve Emotional Intimacy and Connection

#3 How to Turn Up the Heat (Outside the Bedroom)

#4 How to Plan Great Escapes Together (aka Date Nights, Weekends Away)

#5 How to Keep Marriage Fun and Flirty

#6 Practical Help for When Porn or Erotica Is In Your Marriage

#7 How to Make Physical Touch Part of Everyday Life

#8 Healthy Christian Resources on Sexual Technique

#9 How Often Should You Have Sex? (How to Find What Works for Your Marriage)

#10 Why Long Married Couples Have the Best Sex of All

Ready? I can’t wait to show your these great resources to improve YOUR sex life–today!


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Leave a Reply 10 comments

Liv Anna - May 19, 2016 Reply

Think everything in life can be improved and more blessed !!

Krista - June 13, 2016 Reply

Thanks for the resources.

Cathy Lawdanski - June 14, 2016 Reply

Looks like you put together a very comprehensive list on a topic that is hard to talk about. #overthemoon

Aimee Imbeau - June 23, 2016 Reply

This is a great list of resources, Alicia! We need this topic spoken of more often and without shame. Thanks for presenting it is such a healthy way. Thanks for linking up with Grace and Truth.

Kelly Elliott - February 2, 2017 Reply

Now that we have our children there’s no more need for sex.

    Alicia Michelle - February 6, 2017 Reply

    Hi Kelly! Thanks for sharing, however I would have to disagree with your statement. Sex is a wonderful way for couples to connect regularly and to unite not just physically but emotionally. There’s much more to sex than just procreation.

Mom2Seven - February 6, 2017 Reply

I think Kelli was saying that in jest. After all, children are a blessing from being able to come together with one’s spouse and one should continue to enjoy your spouse long after childbearing!
I also recommend KY jellies, hot and cold! 🙂 Cold is better though.

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