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50 Best Christian Sex Resources for Marriage

Do you want to have better sex? Sure! We all have questions about how to have better sex in a Christian marriage.

Since sex is one of the top five issues that couples argue about, it makes sense that we all occasionally need some quality Christian sex resources–everything from sexual technique to ways to grow in intimacy overall so that we all can discover better married sex.

But where do we go to find real answers about sex for the Christian marriage? Especially if we're in a Christian marriage and we want clean Christian sex resources that don't involve erotica or pornography?

Most of us aren't comfortable talking about Christian love making tips. We can't really bring it up our questions about married Christian sex while on a playdate at the park. Ahem.

We need a central place (a Christian sex guide) where we can go to (discreetly!) discover healthy answers about how to have better sex in Christian marriage.

And that, my friends, is why I wrote this post. I've gathered these incredible Christian sex resources that give insight into the top questions many Christian couples have about sex and intimacy in marriage.

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These Christian sex resources are everything from great books about sex (all clean sex resources for couples) to helpful blog posts and marriage videos (all clean sex resources for couples).

Some of these Christian love making tips are about specifically about sexual technique or physical intimacy; while others offer practical ideas and solutions for improving intimacy in marriage (which often starts outside the bedroom and by working on key relationship issues).

There are also Christian sex resources on flirting and keeping love fun; and those that address what to do if pornography or erotica enters your marriage.

These resources on how to have better sex in Christian marriage are grouped together by topic so that you can find the answers you need fast:

  • Powerful Christian Sex Advice Regarding Porn In Your Marriage (including two free christian sex resources for couples dealing with porn in their marriage)
  • How to Improve Your Marriage's Spiritual Connection (The Secret to Better Sex!)
  • How to Improve Emotional Intimacy for Better Sex
  • Christian Sex Resources on Flirting and How to Turn Up Sexual Desire
  • How More Date Nights Can Result in Better Sex in Marriage
  • Clean Christian Resources on Sexual Technique in Marriage

Why Porn Isn't a Great Christian Sex Resource

Friends, my heart breaks every time I hear of a couple who is suffering because one or both members have become involved in pornography. The silent-but-lethal sin of pornography is destroying marriages, families and even churches all over the world!

That's why I wanted to start this post by talking about one of the greatest evils out there when it comes not only to better sex in marriage but to having a strong marriage overall.

At the surface it seems that porn itself would be a great sex resource for couples. If we need ideas on sexual technique, why not look at what others are doing, right?

But truly, pornography (whether viewed as a couple or by one individual in the relationship) is as destructive as wildfire.

I want to give you two amazing (and free) Christian sex resources that you must check out if pornography has entered your marriage. These are two powerful resources from a Christian online accountability monitoring service called Covenant Eyes, and again, they are completely free.

Free Christian Sex Resources for Couples Dealing with Pornography

 

 

Christian Sex Resources for Online Accountability and Internet Filtering

The free Christian sex resources on dealing with pornography in marriage give couples great advice on the next steps to take when a couple first discovers that porn is an issue. But moving forward, trusted online accountability must be an integral part of a couple's action plan if they seek true healing in their marriage.

Our family has used Covenant Eyes for over 7 years now because they are, without a doubt, the best internet filtering and accountability software on the market.

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Not only does Covenant Eyes' software protect loved ones from looking at questionable sites online, it's the accountability power behind Covenant Eyes that makes it an incredibly potent weapon when it comes to battling online pornography.

Pornography can be lethal to a marriage, and no couple is immune from pornography's destructive power. That's why I recommend every couple get Covenant Eyes and become each other's accountability partnering order to safeguard against pornography.

Covenant Eyes even has a 30-day money back guarantee. There really is no risk involved and I know how much having Covenant Eyes has blessed our marriage and given us peace of mind regarding this issue!

That's why I recommend every couple get Covenant Eyes.

Other Recommended Christian Sex Resources for Couples Facing Pornography in Marriage

Do you need more practical advice about how to find healing after pornography or on how to prevent pornography in your marriage? I highly recommend these Christian sex resources as excellent reading materials.

Pulling Back the Shades: Erotica, Intimacy, and the Longings of a Woman's HeartPulling Back the Shades: Erotica, Intimacy, and the Longings of a Woman's HeartEvery Woman's Battle: Discovering God's Plan for Sexual and Emotional Fulfillment (The Every Man Series)Every Woman's Battle: Discovering God's Plan for Sexual and Emotional FulfillmentEvery Man's Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time (The Every Man Series)Every Man's Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a TimeSex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is): Sexual Purity in a Lust-Saturated WorldSex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is): Sexual Purity in a Lust-Saturated WorldThe Fantasy Fallacy: Exposing the Deeper Meaning Behind Sexual ThoughtsThe Fantasy Fallacy: Exposing the Deeper Meaning Behind Sexual ThoughtsEvery Heart Restored: A Wife's Guide to Healing in the Wake of a Husband's Sexual Sin (The Every Man Series)Every Heart Restored: A Wife's Guide to Healing in the Wake of a Husband's Sexual SinWorthy of Her Trust: What You Need to Do to Rebuild Sexual Integrity and Win Her BackWorthy of Her Trust: What You Need to Do to Rebuild Sexual Integrity and Win Her BackThe Healing Choice: How to Move Beyond BetrayalThe Healing Choice: How to Move Beyond Betrayal

How to Improve Your Spiritual Connection (The Secret to Better Sex in Christian Marriage!)

One of the secrets to the best sex possible actually doesn't start in bed. Read on to learn how to improve your spiritual connection with your spouse (a wonderful way to grow your marriage and have better sex in Christian marriage)!

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How can growing closer spiritually transform your married sex life?

Read a few of these posts and you'll discover why the secret to a better sex in Christian marriage starts with maintaining a spiritual bond founded in Christ.

Posts That Share How to Have Better Sex By Focusing on Spiritual Growth

Check out these posts for testimonies and ideas on how to improve your sex life by focusing on spiritual growth as a couple:

Couples Devotionals and Books That Encourage Better Married Christian Sex

Our favorite marriage devotional is one by our dear friends (and marriage coaches) Mike + Carlie Kercheval called “Consecrated Conversations.”

This awesome couples devotional goes deep on important topics that matter to Christian couples (everything from forgiveness to communication issues to sex).

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With three sections in each devotion (including a Bible verse, “Converse & Reflect” questions, and a sample prayer), this marriage resource encourages couples to discover intimacy in marriage like never before.

Plus there are extremely helpful videos and even 30 bonus printable scripture cards!

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Consecrated Conversations is a digital resource, which means my husband and I don't need to carry a book around because we have this powerful couples devotional available right on our phones or tablets. Yes!

I love how practical this couples devotional is, and how Mike and Carlie really encourage couples to invite God into their marriage discussions. Only God is the one that can bring true satisfaction, contentment and unity in marriage, right?

I also appreciate that Consecrated Conversations understands the big needs of Christian couples: that we want to communicate and connect with our spouses and we're disappointed and hurt that we can't seem to make it happen. Consecrated Conversations is a specific, proven roadmap for a closer marriage for Christian couples. 

I highly recommend this marriage devotional to many couples as the best couples devotional out there! Order your copy here.

P.S. Did I mention that this couples devotional experience (that includes an e-book, a video workshop, and scripture cards) is an INSANE value?! It's only $47 for $161 worth of content.

Seriously, the Consecrated Conversations Devotional is an amazing bible study experience to do with your spouse! What are you waiting for? 

GO HERE TO GET CONSECRATED CONVERSATIONS

#1 Way to Grow Closer to Your Spouse

The strongest marriages are those couples who understand that their love for either other is sustained by a deep understanding of God's love for them.

You can't love your spouse unconditionally unless you've experienced the life-changing power of God's unconditional love.

That's why if you want to make God's love real in your heart (and in your relationship), the“I Am Loved” 4-Week Bible Study Course is the perfect next step.

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This amazing, one of a kind study is perfect for anyone who needs to better understand God's love so they can better love their spouse. 

Each week on Days 1 to 5 of the study, you'll use the Spiritual Growth Rhythm™ (an simple 3-step method that allows you to deeply connect with God in about 10 minutes a day) to apply that day's Bible verse about love to your life.

Here's a video that explains the Spiritual Growth Rhythm:

You'll go through the Spiritual Growth Rhythm in the daily worksheets. Here's what the daily Spiritual Growth Rhythm™ Worksheets look like:

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Then at the end of the week you'll watch the teaching video and be challenged by several thought-provoking questions that will allow you to work through any questions you have about God's love, such as:

  • Where is God’s love during hard times?
  • How can God’s love bring me everyday joy and peace?
  • How can I best experience God’s love?
  • How do I know that God always loves me?

The weekly teaching videos, devotionals and weekly check in sheets allow you to process what that you've been learning all week on a specific topic so that God can really confirm these truths in your heart.

There's even bonus material, including adult coloring pages, curated podcast lists and coaching questions so you can dig even deeper into the topic of God's love.

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Day by day the“I Am Loved” Bible Study Course will transform your thoughts by making God's love real and relevant to YOUR circumstances.

Get your copy here!

 

How to Improve Emotional Intimacy for Better Sex in Marriage

While physical passion is important, we know that emotional intimacy is also a key factor to better sex in marriage.

Posts on Emotional Intimacy That Build Better Sex for the Christian Marriage

Discover how growing together emotionally can dramatically improve sex in a Christian marriage:

 

Emotional Intimacy Christian Sex Resources

The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that LastsThe 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that LastsThe 5 Love Languages for Men: Tools for Making a Good Relationship GreatThe 5 Love Languages for Men: Tools for Making a Good Relationship GreatHis Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof MarriageHis Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof MarriageLove & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately NeedsLove & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately NeedsMen Are Like Waffles--Women Are Like Spaghetti: Understanding and Delighting in Your DifferencesMen Are Like Waffles–Women Are Like Spaghetti: Understanding and Delighting in Your DifferencesSacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy?Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy?The Love DareThe Love DareThe Husband Project: 21 Days of Loving Your Man--on Purpose and with a PlanThe Husband Project: 21 Days of Loving Your Man–on Purpose and with a PlanThe Mingling of Souls: God's Design for Love, Marriage, Sex, and RedemptionThe Mingling of Souls: God's Design for Love, Marriage, Sex, and RedemptionLoveology: God. Love. Marriage. Sex. And the Never-Ending Story of Male and Female.Loveology: God. Love. Marriage. Sex. And the Never-Ending Story of Male and Female.Sacred Sex: A Spiritual Celebration of Oneness in MarriageSacred Sex: A Spiritual Celebration of Oneness in Marriage

Christian Sex Resources on Flirting and Increasing Sexual Desire

We've all heard that the best sex starts outside the bedroom, right? Couples who can slowly build sexual desire outside the bedroom have a much better likelihood of having more sex in marriage (and better sex overall).

If you're looking for simple ways to flirt with your husband, easy ways to say I love you, or how to re-discover sexual desire in marriage, check out these great Christian sex resources below (which include helpful posts and top-selling Christian sex books).

Ideas for Increased Sexual Desire for Christian Married Couples:

Christian Sex Resources for Flirting and Increasing Sexual Desire

Sex Begins in the Kitchen: Creating Intimacy to Make Your Marriage SizzleSex Begins in the Kitchen: Creating Intimacy to Make Your Marriage SizzleRed-Hot Monogamy: Making Your Marriage SizzleRed-Hot Monogamy: Making Your Marriage SizzleThe Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex: (And You Thought Bad Girls Have All the Fun)The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex: (And You Thought Bad Girls Have All the Fun)

How More Date Nights Can Result in Better Sex in Marriage

It makes sense that date nights are a great way to have better sex in Christian marriage because we're able to re-discover those little things about our spouse that made us fall in love with them.

The problem with date nights is that we get so busy! How can we actually make time for date nights (especially when we have young children and/or busy careers)? And once we do get a date with our spouse on the calendar, how can we insure that the date night will result in a deeper emotional connection (and alright, yes, better sex)?

These posts and other marriage resources below are a fantastic way to not only make date nights a reality in your marriage but to help you develop the fine art of conversation and connection while you're alone together.

Recommended Christian Marriage Post on Date Nights

26 Ways Busy Parents Can Have More Date Nights

Favorite Christian Marriage Books About Date Night Ideas

52 Uncommon Dates: A Couple's Adventure Guide for Praying, Playing, and Staying Together52 Uncommon Dates: A Couple's Adventure Guide for Praying, Playing, and Staying Together101 Conversation Starters for Couples101 Conversation Starters for Couples101 More Conversation Starters for Couples (101 Conversation Starters)101 More Conversation Starters for Couples (101 Conversation Starters)Little Book of Great Dates: 52 Creative Ideas to Make Your Marriage Fun (Focus on the Family Books)Little Book of Great Dates: 52 Creative Ideas to Make Your Marriage Fun (Focus on the Family Books)

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And yet, why shouldn't Christian couples be educated on ways to make married sex as pleasurable as possible?

These awesome Christian sex resources offer not only clean advice on sexual technique, but they are written by highly respected Christian authors.

And let's face it: Sexual technique is quite a fun topic for husbands and wives to explore together, don't you think (wink, wink!)?

Recommended Books on Christian Love Making Tips

Intended for Pleasure: Sex Technique and Sexual Fulfillment in Christian MarriageIntended for Pleasure: Sex Technique and Sexual Fulfillment in Christian MarriageThe Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual FulfillmentThe Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual FulfillmentPassion Pursuit: What Kind of Love Are You Making?Passion Pursuit: What Kind of Love Are You Making?A Celebration Of Sex: A Guide to Enjoying God's Gift of Sexual IntimacyA Celebration Of Sex: A Guide to Enjoying God's Gift of Sexual IntimacyGetting Your Sex Life Off to a Great Start: A Guide for Engaged and Newlywed CouplesGetting Your Sex Life Off to a Great Start: A Guide for Engaged and Newlywed CouplesSheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in MarriageSheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in MarriageHot Mama: 12 Secrets to a Sizzling Hot MarriageHot Mama: 12 Secrets to a Sizzling Hot MarriageRed-Hot Monogamy: Making Your Marriage SizzleRed-Hot Monogamy: Making Your Marriage SizzleThe Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex: (And You Thought Bad Girls Have All the Fun)The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex: (And You Thought Bad Girls Have All the Fun)No More Headaches: Enjoying Sex & Intimacy in MarriageNo More Headaches: Enjoying Sex & Intimacy in Marriage25 Questions You're Afraid to Ask About Love, Sex, and Intimacy25 Questions You're Afraid to Ask About Love, Sex, and IntimacyUnder the Sheets: The Secrets to Hot Sex in Your MarriageUnder the Sheets: The Secrets to Hot Sex in Your Marriage

 
 
What a list of great Christian sex resources, right?! There are SO MANY great resources here on how to have better sex in marriage!
 

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