10 Ways to Teach Yourself to Live in the Moment (and 8 x 10 Printable Quotes)


10 Ways to Teach Yourself to Live in the Moment

1) Write it down (“brain dump”).

Allow yourself time to get those ideas out of your brain and into a planner, your phone, pad of paper or whatever works for you.

I have one central place for my ideas, but I also have pads of paper by my nightstand, in my car and in our schoolroom because these are the places where I find myself becoming overwhelmed with ideas of what I need to do. 

I find that if I can write them down (even if I have to pull the car over to write them down, or sit up in the middle of the night) then I can release them. This in turn helps me to…

2) Stop obsessing about things. Really.

I know, I know. It is my natural tendency to process and plan things this way too.

But I’m convinced that this is the main root of overwhelm and stress for so many of us.

If we choose to think about all may go on in the future (or what happened in the past) then how will we ever, ever engage ourselves in (and fully enjoy) the present?

3) Stop and reset (even if it’s every 15 seconds).

If I find myself (or one of my kids) swimming in overwhelm, I catch myself (or them) and say:

Let’s stop. Let’s reassess what’s happening right now. Everything will take care of itself. Let’s just focus on what right now needs to look like.”

And then…

4) Break down what’s before you into small steps. 

What if, instead of thinking of the task in its entirety, you broke the task down into many moment-by-moment steps?

How much anxiety would dissipate if you could concentrate on these small steps, one at a time?

Don’t try to rush ahead mentally to the next step. Instead just think about that exact step for that second. Then…

5) Become very literal.

I find that when I don’t live in the moment it happens on an subconscious level.

It’s like I’ll be doing something and then I realize suddenly that (oh darn!) my mind is off thinking and re-thinking through an upcoming situation.

One of the best ways I’ve found to stop the onslaught of thoughts is to make myself think about something very literal right in front of me (“I am driving on this road right now.” “There is a beautiful bunch of flowers on the table in front of me.” “All I’m being asked to do is to sit here.”).

Then I play a game with myself where I begin forcing myself to describe in detail this literal thing in front of me (“Look at this road. It is super curvy with black lines and a wandering fence on the right side. There is a group of trees up ahead on the right.”)

Once I’ve allowed my mind to do this for a 30 seconds or so, it’s like I’m able to control my thoughts again.

6) Take deep breaths.

In her Replenish 365 class, Lisa Byrne teaches a wonderful breathing technique that I use daily.

To turn on the “calm switch” in your brain, Lisa suggests a four-breath round of breathing in through your nose to a count of four, and then breathing out through your mouth to a count of eight.

This little technique has saved me multiple times!

7) Smile and relax.

Have you ever noticed the effect that your muscles (whether that’s your facial muscles, your shoulders, etc) have on your overall mental state? This is especially true of our facial muscles.

The next time you’re feeling totally overwhelmed, try smiling (I’m serious! Go into the other room to do it if you have to.).

Now you probably won’t want to smile, but do it anyway.

I’m not saying it’s a cure-all, but I know I’ve read before about the connection between smiling and endorphin release, and every time I try relaxing and smiling when I am super stressed, I instantly feel my defenses lower and I somehow feel (even a little bit) better.

And on the subject of relaxing…

8) Do some quick stress-relieving exercises.

Now, I know that this isn’t always possible, especially if you’re at the grocery store with a cart full of kids or in your car speeding along at 65 miles per hour.

But if you are at home and are able, consider doing some simple stretches, shoulder rolls, or even basic yoga poses like “Downward Facing Dog” or “Child’s Pose” (you can google these to see what they look like if you’re not familiar with them).

9) Find thankfulness in the moment.

Choose to find something in the moment to thank God about that’s happening right now before you.

If you’re driving in the country, thank God for the beautiful scenery around you.

If you’re driving in the city, thank God for all the services and places to visit around you.

If you’re making dinner, thank God for the yumminess that awaits you when the dinner is completed. 

Somehow, being thankful reminds us of the bigger picture and that, yes, there are always many, many things to celebrate.

These 8 x 10 printable quotes can really help!


10) Accept His provision for this moment and choose joy.

Someone once told me that “the definition of fear is ‘going into the future without God.’”

That has really stuck with me and has changed my life.

God gives us His provision for this moment, and only for this moment. We’re not living in the future or the past, so we shouldn’t be surprised if we feel stressed or anxious when thinking about those things because God hasn’t handed us the provision for those things!

God fed the Israelite people with “manna” that lasted only for one day (Exodus 16:1-20); and Jesus tells us to not worry about tomorrow because tomorrow brings its own troubles (Matthew 6:34).

These Bible verses on joy (no matter the circumstances) have really inspired me!

He will give us what we need in that moment. Live in the moment. Stay with Him there!


Your Turn:

Now… how about you? How is God teaching you to live in the moment, especially during stressful seasons? 

And don’t forget to grab your free (4) 8 x 10 Printable Quotes! (TK)


About Alicia Michelle

As a wife and mom to four passionate kids, Alicia Michelle loves encouraging other moms with practical tips for joy-filled living in everyday life, especially in parenting, marriage, faith and health.Alicia is the owner/editor of Your Vibrant Family; the author of Plan to Be Flexible, The Back to School Survival Manual; and the creator/producer of the "7 Days to a Less Angry Mom Online Video Course,", Christ-Centered Christmas Resources and My Memory Box Organizing System. In addition, she is a monthly contributor for several popular family blogs, including Crosswalk.com.Follow her on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Pinterest.

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gracehoule - February 3, 2015 Reply

I just told myself today, that I have to reset and choose to live in the moment, and then I read your blog. I love how God works like that. Todays moments was playing doctor with my daughter, crazy eights with my son, random hugs from my other son. Watching my husband carve out time for each child. I am thankful for God’s many blessings!

    Alicia Kazsuk - February 3, 2015 Reply

    Grace, thank you for sharing! God is incredible with His timing! Love it!! Your day sounds wonderful… sometimes our best days are the most simple ones. 🙂 Blessings to you as we (both) work out how to live in the moment and to discover God’s rich treasures there. 🙂

womenwithintention - February 4, 2015 Reply

Great tips! Thank you for sharing at Women With Intention Wednesdays! I look forward to seeing what you have this week! 🙂

    Alicia Kazsuk - February 4, 2015 Reply

    Thank you so much for the encouragement! 🙂 Glad that you found them helpful!

Cindy - April 1, 2015 Reply

Oh, I love this! Really great tips. I find myself needing to do this more and more as my kids grown. I find even standing up, stretching and walking around the kitchen is helpful. I try to live my day in chunks and be fully present in each segment (try…being key there ;)). great post.

    Alicia Kazsuk - April 1, 2015 Reply

    Cindy, thanks! Yes, I think it’s a constant re-evaluation of what’s going on right now in this second, and trying to just be there then. It’s totally something that I’m working myself into too! 🙂

    Genice - May 12, 2016 Reply

    Great comments! I really need to start stretching more! Great reminder 🙂

Lisa notes - May 12, 2016 Reply

“Today doesn’t have to be perfect to be good.” That quote really resonates with me. Last year I focused very intentionally on living in the now, so this post really speaks to me. # 10 is where I’m working today: “10) Accept His provision for this moment and choose joy.” Thanks, Alicia!

    Alicia Michelle - May 13, 2016 Reply

    Thank you! I love that you’re working through this too! #10 is close to my heart as well. 🙂 Thanks for sharing!

Genice - May 12, 2016 Reply

Great info, thanks! I make a conscious effort to refuse to be busy. Or maybe I should say that is my goal and I work at it. Sometimes I tell myself, “I am not in a hurry so don’t act like it.” And I make myself slow down and be in the moment. I like your note taking idea. I do that as well except I use notes in my phone. That way I know where all my notes/ideas/plans are; otherwise, I might stress about which idea is on which note lol! The other thing I do is, I take about a minute or two (or 30 seconds lol) and I look at my children. I really look at them. I look at their eye lashes, their little hands, lips, chin or just something I love about them that reminds me of who they are. I love watching my youngest paint and draw or play in the dirt. I love to see my oldest in her fashion du’jour because she’s talented in areas where I struggle. All this reminds me they are fearfully and wonderfully made and I thank God for them! I am convinced a thankful heart moves mountains! Thank you for your blog! I really helps me be a wife/friend/mom who glorifies God!

    Alicia Michelle - May 13, 2016 Reply

    Oh, how I love this, Genice!! God is SO present in our struggles and we can even see His handiwork in our children’s faces! Fantastic! I too am convinced that “a thankful heart moves mountains.” A gorgeous thought! And it blesses me immensely to hear that anything I write would encourage you to glorify Him more! Thank you for sharing that! Blessings to you today!

Melissa Ruddy - May 15, 2016 Reply

Love these printable they are beautifully designed and have a wonderful message can’t wait to frame them and put them up in my home. Thank you

Victoria @DazzleWhileFrazzled - May 15, 2016 Reply

Great printables! I need to learn to slow down and just be. Great motivation. Thanks for linking up with Funtastic Friday.

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